Tuesday, September 8, 2009

Happy Birthday, BB3

Today, BoilerBaby 3 celebrated her birthday. One child and her new family celebrate. One mother cries?

I don't know if BB3's birth mother is sad today because she is not able to hold her baby and celebrate another milestone with her, but I wouldn't be surprised if she shed a few tears. I understand that that is often the case with birth mothers.

When I laugh with my children, hug my children, and even fuss at my children, I often am reminded how fortunate I am that I have them. Days like today remind me of the courage it takes to give up one's child for adoption.

So tonight, we celebrate, but I suspect that someone quietly cries.

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